無欲無求

Up In The Air 名言：
Ryan Bingham: How much does your life weigh? Imagine for a second that you're carrying a backpack. I want you to pack it with all the stuff that you have in your life... you start with the little things. The shelves, the drawers, the knickknacks, then you start adding larger stuff. Clothes, tabletop appliances, lamps, your TV... the backpackshould be getting pretty heavy now. You go bigger. Your couch, your car, your home... I want you to stuff it all into that backpack. Now I want you to fill it with people. Start with casual acquaintances, friends of friends, folks around the office... and then you move into the people you trust with your most intimate secrets. Your brothers, your sisters, your children, your parents and finally your husband, your wife, your boyfriend, your girlfriend. You get them into that backpack, feel the weight of that bag. Make no mistake your relationships are the heaviest components in your life. All those negotiations and arguments and secrets, the compromises. The slower we move the faster we die. Make no mistake, moving is living. Some animals were meant to carry each other to live symbiotically over a lifetime. Star crossed lovers, monogamous swans. We are not swans. We are sharks.

人越大，負擔便越多，
有些是外在生活使然，有些是內在心靈壓力。
有些是長大過程中必需。有些是成長階段中累積。
擔子越來越重，但你也理應越來越強才對。


要活得輕鬆自在，
不是要偉大成就，而是要無欲無求。


但我們都只是普通人，
追求物質，渴望情感，無窮無盡，
要滿足所有，我們停下來的時間便越少，
有的路很長，有的路很短，
過程中我們會累、會哭、會放棄、會後悔，
最後我們得到什麼，經歷了什麼，學會了什麼，
每個人也有不同體驗、體會，
未必能夠滿足所要求的，
但最重要的是要將事做得完滿。
即便最後得不到，你也要知道自己是得不到，
滿足不到求，但也完滿了我們的欲，
這種低層次的「無欲無求」，
是我們至少要做到的。




好累啊，滿身汗水。好痛啊，滿臉淚水。
這些種種的過程，都是我們存在的憑證，
會流汗，會流淚，
代表我們懂發洩，會滿足，
表示我們還有未來。